Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Marital Expectations, Fail

Several of the characters Susan Glaspell incorporates into her books deliver a look into the way someone’s live can be stifled by society’s expectations of the correct way to live their lives. One of the characters whose life was stifled by the responsibility of maintaining marital expectations was Minnie Wright in "A Jury of Her Peers." The marital expectation was to serve your husband in any way that he needs.  In the book, this includes taking care of oneself properly, always looking presentable, cooking and keeping the house clean and tidy, never leaving anything unfinished, and keeping your husband happy.

Throughout Minnie Wright’s marriage, she changed dramatically. According to those who knew her, she used to be, “real sweet and timid” (96). Another one of her peers had said, “I wish you’d seen Minnie Foster when she wore a white dress with blue ribbons, and stood up there in the choir and sang” (99).  Mrs. Hale and Mrs. Peters discussed that way she used to be before marriage; lively and she loved to sing.  Now, everyone criticized her, especially the men, saying things like, “Dirty towels! Not much of a housekeeper, would you say, ladies?”(88). Or how Mr. Hale “kicked his foot against some dirty pans under the sink” (88).  When Mrs. Hale had looked around the kitchen, she also noticed how it was not “slicked up” (89).  Mrs. Hale’s eyes couldn't stop looking around noticing things like the “bucket of sugar on the low shelf, the cover was off the wooden bucket, and besides it was a paper bag- half full” (89).  Although, they didn't only notice how she changed and stopped keeping things clean, they also noticed how she stopped singing, too.  After finding the canary dead, they realized that this was all Minnie had left of the live she loved before married.  The canary held her hope and love for singing. They knew Mr. Wright was the reason she has killed the bird.  Mrs. Hale had stated, “No, Wright wouldn't like the bird, a thing that sang. She used to sing. He killed that too” (98).  This statement clearly explains that Mr. Wright isolated Minnie from everything she loved and forced her to confirm with society's expectation of the way a woman should act.

When Mr. Hale had found Mr. Wright upstairs dead, they noticed he had been strangled to death. They instantly thought it was Minnie Wright. What kind of person would not have woken up when their husband, who was sleeping right next to them, was being strangled to death by someone? The fact that when asked what had happened, Minnie only laughed and showed no emotion to losing her husband doesn't help take her off the suspect list. Minnie Wright’s life had been so stifled by societal expectations that it cause her to snap. She had such a hard time giving up her singing life, for the man she had married. She had a hard time conforming to everything a married wife was supposed to do, such as take care of her husband and clean the house. Minnie was eventually so stifled by how unhappy Mr. Wright made her, she snapped and killed him. 

4 comments:

  1. Although a bit extreme, I know several people who would love to be out of a marriage that stifled their lives. I constantly feel grateful to live in a time where partners and equal and my husband willingly does just as much housework as I do, if not more. In these days it was a known fact that the wife takes care of the husband and family while he provides and works out of the home. Society has changed drastically, and I'm so grateful for that! Expectations were extremely different.

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  2. It is sad to see how much Minnie changed due to marriage and the expectations that were put on her. She was such a happy person before her marriage. It is sad how society put so many expectations on her that she cracked under all the pressure.

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  3. It is hard to imagine women being so obedient to a man's will. I, myself, came out of a very abusive relationship. Knowing myself prior to my marriage and now I am a completely different person. I used to be very much willing to do anything for that person, now I am more about equality and knowing what I deserve and that I must keep who I am no matter what.

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  4. This is such a sad reality of that time and even still today, that so many women just give up their individuality and conform to the norms of a dutiful wife. Its sad to see such a high spirited, and happy woman diminish away because of a man who could could only see himself above her never once being able to imagine her as an equal human being. I believe these expectations were the cause of the ultimate result of the death of Mr. Wright.

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